How do I know what’s next for me?

Have you ever felt both tired and restless at the same time?

Like part of you wants to surrender to finally slow down and another part of you is already asking, what’s next?

I hear this a lot in the conversations I have with women. And I know it’s not about laziness, or a lack of ambition. It’s about being in a natural transition point  when your old way of finding purpose doesn’t quite fit anymore, but the new way hasn’t fully revealed itself yet.

Here’s what I want you to know: you won’t find clarity by pushing harder. You’ll find it in the quieter moments by listening to your body, not just your mind.

When a possibility feels light, expansive, energising that’s a signal.
When it feels heavy, tight, draining  that’s also a signal.

And when you name what truly matters to you, even in the smallest way, it starts to guide you like a compass.

So the real work isn’t to rush forward. It’s to pause long enough to hear yourself.

👉 Let me ask you this: when you sit with the question “what’s next?” what do you notice in your body?

Write me back and tell me. I’ll read it personally.

Love,

Rita 

PS: If you already know what that thing is, don’t hold it back. Bring it into a private conversation with me here. Clarity often begins the moment you name it.

PSS:  IIf influence is the edge for you right now, read this. It could change everything.